Comments on: Shut up to get ahead http://modite.com/blog/2007/08/05/shut-up-to-get-ahead/ Career and life advice for the new generation Wed, 10 Mar 2010 18:20:59 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Your Personal Branding Business Model « Adam Salamon http://modite.com/blog/2007/08/05/shut-up-to-get-ahead/comment-page-1/#comment-211914 Your Personal Branding Business Model « Adam Salamon Sun, 25 Jan 2009 16:24:02 +0000 http://modite.com/blog/2007/08/05/shut-up-to-get-ahead/#comment-211914 [...] have already given you a chance. That means creating deep, meaningful relationships. It involves listening as much as it involves talking and [...] [...] have already given you a chance. That means creating deep, meaningful relationships. It involves listening as much as it involves talking and [...]

]]> By: Your Personal Branding Business Model | Personal Branding Blog - Dan Schawbel http://modite.com/blog/2007/08/05/shut-up-to-get-ahead/comment-page-1/#comment-211510 Your Personal Branding Business Model | Personal Branding Blog - Dan Schawbel Sat, 24 Jan 2009 12:17:51 +0000 http://modite.com/blog/2007/08/05/shut-up-to-get-ahead/#comment-211510 [...] have already given you a chance. That means creating deep, meaningful relationships. It involves listening as much as it involves talking and [...] [...] have already given you a chance. That means creating deep, meaningful relationships. It involves listening as much as it involves talking and [...]

]]> By: LRS Classic: Say less, influence more. at Personal PR http://modite.com/blog/2007/08/05/shut-up-to-get-ahead/comment-page-1/#comment-12349 LRS Classic: Say less, influence more. at Personal PR Wed, 05 Dec 2007 16:59:31 +0000 http://modite.com/blog/2007/08/05/shut-up-to-get-ahead/#comment-12349 [...] And you can’t figure out what those things are by talking non-stop. You have to shut up. You have to listen. To them. To your readers, your boss, your peers, experts, your friends, people in the airport, strangers in the café. What are they talking about? What do they care about? [...] [...] And you can’t figure out what those things are by talking non-stop. You have to shut up. You have to listen. To them. To your readers, your boss, your peers, experts, your friends, people in the airport, strangers in the café. What are they talking about? What do they care about? [...]

]]> By: Modite - Engagement for the next generation http://modite.com/blog/2007/08/05/shut-up-to-get-ahead/comment-page-1/#comment-2339 Modite - Engagement for the next generation Fri, 05 Oct 2007 12:35:34 +0000 http://modite.com/blog/2007/08/05/shut-up-to-get-ahead/#comment-2339 [...] I know now, six weeks in, that that is not the case. People love to hate you. Oh, they love to hate you and judge you and smile in your face while they do it. I’m so oblivious to this, that these instances have to be told to me on a weekly basis, because I can play the game, but that doesn’t mean I don’t still believe in the basic goodness of people. [...] [...] I know now, six weeks in, that that is not the case. People love to hate you. Oh, they love to hate you and judge you and smile in your face while they do it. I’m so oblivious to this, that these instances have to be told to me on a weekly basis, because I can play the game, but that doesn’t mean I don’t still believe in the basic goodness of people. [...]

]]> By: Modite - Engagement for the next generation http://modite.com/blog/2007/08/05/shut-up-to-get-ahead/comment-page-1/#comment-2245 Modite - Engagement for the next generation Thu, 04 Oct 2007 16:12:14 +0000 http://modite.com/blog/2007/08/05/shut-up-to-get-ahead/#comment-2245 [...] I know now, six weeks in, that that is not the case. People love to hate you. Oh, they love to hate you and judge you and smile in your face while they do it. I’m so oblivious to it that these instances have to be told to me on a weekly basis, because I can play the game, but that doesn’t mean I don’t still believe in the basic goodness of people. [...] [...] I know now, six weeks in, that that is not the case. People love to hate you. Oh, they love to hate you and judge you and smile in your face while they do it. I’m so oblivious to it that these instances have to be told to me on a weekly basis, because I can play the game, but that doesn’t mean I don’t still believe in the basic goodness of people. [...]

]]> By: Modite - Engagement for the next generation http://modite.com/blog/2007/08/05/shut-up-to-get-ahead/comment-page-1/#comment-299 Modite - Engagement for the next generation Wed, 22 Aug 2007 04:25:51 +0000 http://modite.com/blog/2007/08/05/shut-up-to-get-ahead/#comment-299 [...] 3) You have to play the game to win. I know that. I’ve talked about it here. But guess what? The current game sucks. So, along the way, we’re going to break every rule and change what it means to win. [...] [...] 3) You have to play the game to win. I know that. I’ve talked about it here. But guess what? The current game sucks. So, along the way, we’re going to break every rule and change what it means to win. [...]

]]> By: Modite - Engagement for the next generation http://modite.com/blog/2007/08/05/shut-up-to-get-ahead/comment-page-1/#comment-239 Modite - Engagement for the next generation Thu, 16 Aug 2007 19:58:56 +0000 http://modite.com/blog/2007/08/05/shut-up-to-get-ahead/#comment-239 [...] I saw Johannes last night after a long day and an even longer meeting, and started talking as we sat down at the restaurant. I told him the recent gossip. I talked all about my latest success. I described how I got in trouble for my recent post. I told him who had called me, who I had seen, who was annoying the heck out of me. Mostly, I just dumped. Dumped my entire life on him. For fifteen or twenty minutes straight. I talked and he listened. Then, far from finished, but eager to eat the food that was placed in front of me, I said: [...] [...] I saw Johannes last night after a long day and an even longer meeting, and started talking as we sat down at the restaurant. I told him the recent gossip. I talked all about my latest success. I described how I got in trouble for my recent post. I told him who had called me, who I had seen, who was annoying the heck out of me. Mostly, I just dumped. Dumped my entire life on him. For fifteen or twenty minutes straight. I talked and he listened. Then, far from finished, but eager to eat the food that was placed in front of me, I said: [...]

]]> By: Say less, influence more. « Little Red Suit http://modite.com/blog/2007/08/05/shut-up-to-get-ahead/comment-page-1/#comment-137 Say less, influence more. « Little Red Suit Mon, 06 Aug 2007 16:48:14 +0000 http://modite.com/blog/2007/08/05/shut-up-to-get-ahead/#comment-137 [...] And you can’t figure out what those things are by talking non-stop. You have to shut up. You have to listen. To them. To your readers, your boss, your peers, experts, your friends, people in the airport, strangers in the café. What are they talking about? What do they care about? [...] [...] And you can’t figure out what those things are by talking non-stop. You have to shut up. You have to listen. To them. To your readers, your boss, your peers, experts, your friends, people in the airport, strangers in the café. What are they talking about? What do they care about? [...]

]]> By: Rebecca Thorman http://modite.com/blog/2007/08/05/shut-up-to-get-ahead/comment-page-1/#comment-135 Rebecca Thorman Mon, 06 Aug 2007 00:04:20 +0000 http://modite.com/blog/2007/08/05/shut-up-to-get-ahead/#comment-135 @ Adam and Devin- Thank you! I hear you.. ;) @ Adam and Devin- Thank you! I hear you.. ;)

]]> By: Devin Reams http://modite.com/blog/2007/08/05/shut-up-to-get-ahead/comment-page-1/#comment-134 Devin Reams Sun, 05 Aug 2007 21:13:05 +0000 http://modite.com/blog/2007/08/05/shut-up-to-get-ahead/#comment-134 Nice article, Rebecca. :) As a wise person once said: there's a reason we were given two ears and one mouth. Nice article, Rebecca. :)

As a wise person once said: there’s a reason we were given two ears and one mouth.

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